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Is it advisable to borrow, lend or ask for money from your ex- boyfriend or girlfriend?
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Dolapo Alonge:I pray God won't make this a reality..
It's not a good thing especially if it's the lady requesting,for u to come to ask for money you will be sober, calmed and cool which can be vulnerable.
It could lead just an hang out, a Lil story from the past and then on & on..
From the guy's end, the lady night just overlook the happenings and go ahead to gv to him cos as far as she's concerned she has moved on but Atimes hard for a guy even if its one night stand his mind would still wanna linger but for a moment and ponder on it a while.
Victor: It's not advisable. The fact that there's been breakage in the chemistry between the parties had placed a note of caution to the form of help that should be rendered or ask of from the Ex...
The long-run implications could be grievous, as this could affect the recipient of such money in terms of his/her esteem. Again, it could be a device to retrieve from the the giver funds that has been incurred in the exterminated relationship, and as such, it could lead to bad debt. And no one you will relate that with that will be objective in making judgment, since, you guys are once together.
And once, the party refused to refund, you start threatening and in the process, the ex could cook up stories or even to treat your fuck up, in the case he/she has something secretive about you like nude pictures or abortion record or record of a chronic disease or even could look for way of getting you out of the relationship you're presently. By
Rhoda:If they are both over the break up, and they remain good friends, and they keep in touch. Lending money out of the blue from your ex you've not spoken for a while is a little bit degrading I think.
Olaolu:Ex you say.... Just let d ex be in d ex and move on... That is why you will go and start developing one useless feelings for eachother again... Feeling a wae suppose don die...
Temitope: Depends on how the love birds departed and the relationship that exists between them afterward.
What is your opinion?
Is it advisable to borrow, lend or ask for money from your ex- boyfriend or girlfriend?
Check out some responses
Dolapo Alonge:I pray God won't make this a reality..
It's not a good thing especially if it's the lady requesting,for u to come to ask for money you will be sober, calmed and cool which can be vulnerable.
It could lead just an hang out, a Lil story from the past and then on & on..
From the guy's end, the lady night just overlook the happenings and go ahead to gv to him cos as far as she's concerned she has moved on but Atimes hard for a guy even if its one night stand his mind would still wanna linger but for a moment and ponder on it a while.
Victor: It's not advisable. The fact that there's been breakage in the chemistry between the parties had placed a note of caution to the form of help that should be rendered or ask of from the Ex...
The long-run implications could be grievous, as this could affect the recipient of such money in terms of his/her esteem. Again, it could be a device to retrieve from the the giver funds that has been incurred in the exterminated relationship, and as such, it could lead to bad debt. And no one you will relate that with that will be objective in making judgment, since, you guys are once together.
And once, the party refused to refund, you start threatening and in the process, the ex could cook up stories or even to treat your fuck up, in the case he/she has something secretive about you like nude pictures or abortion record or record of a chronic disease or even could look for way of getting you out of the relationship you're presently. By
Rhoda:If they are both over the break up, and they remain good friends, and they keep in touch. Lending money out of the blue from your ex you've not spoken for a while is a little bit degrading I think.
Olaolu:Ex you say.... Just let d ex be in d ex and move on... That is why you will go and start developing one useless feelings for eachother again... Feeling a wae suppose don die...
Temitope: Depends on how the love birds departed and the relationship that exists between them afterward.
What is your opinion?
